Leadership is not for the faint of heart. It’s easy to look at people in leadership in our own lives, and critique them, be jealous of them, or even think that what they’re doing isn’t that hard and we could do it just as well. But then you find yourself in that place of leadership. And suddenly it’s not so easy.
The next step is often not clear. Even if the “what” is clear, the “how” might not be. Often being a leader means being the one to figure out this thing that no one yet knows how to do. Being a trailblazer. And while some leaders make it seem like they love blazing trails — and maybe they actually do — you might not be that kind of leader. I know I’m not.
I’m the kind of leader who appreciates good leadership when I see it. I don’t have to be in charge nor do I often want to be. And yet, we need leaders in our world. We need people who will care enough about their communities, companies and families that they will volunteer to take on the responsibility of leadership. People who are willing to be vulnerable and put themselves in a situation in which they might fail.
It’s a privilege to have the power to make decisions. But with that privilege comes responsibility. Leadership means saying, “I’ll make the tough decision that needs to be made here, I will stick around to see the consequences that result, and I will be responsible for handling the new situation, as well.”
There’s moments of leadership that are glamorous. There’s recognition, there’s pride in telling people your role and joy in talking about your passion for the cause. There’s (hopefully) the exhilaration of success. But the excitement is fleeting.
Quickly the excitement passes, and you have to get back to work. A new problem arises or circumstances change or there’s simply ongoing tasks that must be done. You realize that just because you were successful in the past doesn’t guarantee you will be successful now. There are no guarantees.
That no-guarantee policy–that risk–is what you take on when you lead. It can be daunting to take on that risk. And yet we need people to do it.
There are tough decisions needing to be made, problems that need solving and solutions that need testing. Will you be brave enough to go first? Will you care enough to get out of your comfort zone? Will you put in the time it takes to create something new?