Moving into a new stage of life can be exhilarating, overwhelming, and a lot to take in. A great way to learn from your mistakes and cherish your successes, is to talk through those experiences with a close friend.
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My most cherished friendships are characterized by honesty and straight-forward conversation. These are peers I look up to, regularly learn from, and with whom I feel comfortable speaking openly. They have given me ideas of how to improve my life and my relationships. They’ve made me feel loved. And they’ve walked with me through seasons of discouragement and joy, tough decisions and renewed purpose.
Most of them live nearby, but some live far away. It’s energizing to have an in-person, heart-to-heart with a friend. But an intentional phone call or skype chat can be equally enriching (so don’t let distance be an excuse!)
Does no one come to mind as good friend? You may need to cultivate or deepen an existing friendship before launching into the open conversation I’m advocating here. And that’s fine. You don’t want to rush this relationship. But you also shouldn’t sit back and wait for it to develop on its own. Because in essence, ‘waiting for it to develop on its own’ means waiting for the other person to open up first. And maybe the other person is waiting for you!
So, how do you do it? Some basic truths of friendship apply here, with added factors to keep in mind.